proud of you brother Brian Greer @ 2008-05-20 04:14:01
"Icing on the cake." A-train @ 2008-05-20 18:29:15
It's pretty cool that you have a clothing line that benefits kids. I own a retail shop, how do I get your clothing line in my store? Rebecca @ 2008-05-20 20:51:17
Nice glamour shot man. Ben Bolick @ 2008-05-21 03:58:26
Seriously though, I am proud of you as well along with all of watauga nation. Ben Bolick @ 2008-05-21 04:02:50
Hot bunns you are something! elizabeth @ 2008-05-21 22:23:27
would turb @ 2008-05-22 13:20:56
In it to win it? I think so! notDeAnna @ 2008-05-22 23:55:41
What a handsome man -- making Raleigh proud! Rod @ 2008-05-25 20:44:57
if she doesn't choose you she's out of her mind kourt @ 2008-05-27 19:51:09
I hope Deanna chooses you! You are my favorite in the show! kim23 @ 2008-05-27 21:39:41
Graham, I really admire your work involving your charity to help kids! What a creative idea! I wish you the best! Megan30 @ 2008-05-27 22:17:16
Graham... it took me a long time to find you! If Deanna is smart she'll pick you b/c you are beautiful and possibly the first person on this show that is actually cool :) Jo @ 2008-05-28 01:11:07
Graham, you rock! I love your style! Good luck on the show. Jolie @ 2008-06-04 02:36:49
What an awesome way to help people. I like your style. I'll make sure to purchase and promote 46 here in Mass. Heidi M @ 2008-06-04 19:52:47
GRAHAM....if DeAnna doesn't marry you I WILL! ha ha. Good luck on the show. You put all the other guys to shame especially JEREMY. I also wanted to say I plan on buying some 46 appearal to support the kids! Once again good LUCK! Megan @ 2008-06-05 03:57:38
First off so cool that you were playing pro basketball! Second that you are helping kids, such a great quality in a person. I'm surprised you aren't married already, you are good looking and caring...what's wrong with the NYC girls (just kidding). You are the best looking on the show. Good luck you deserve a great girl. Allie @ 2008-06-10 02:47:07
So, now we know why you are on the show........You are hot! I'll give you that. Hope you make lots of $ She' @ 2008-06-10 03:13:57
Great website and awesome charity work that you do! Hopefully you get a chance to mention it on the show!! Best of luck :-D Kath @ 2008-06-10 03:45:32
Graham...you are just plain SICK
;) Patti @ 2008-06-10 16:29:43
Hey there! I just wanted to say that it's great that you take time out of your busy life to help raise money for children's charities! Not only is it rewarding, it's making a difference in someone's life! BTW, you are pretty handsome! Elaina @ 2008-06-10 21:09:50
I think your such a sweet guy! I can certanly tell by the show deanna has the hots for you such a physical attraction its so obvious good luck with all that you do. Sara @ 2008-06-10 21:27:44
Much success and love to you. Sandy @ 2008-06-11 04:14:57
love the tshirt, especially the bison on the sleeve. did u design it? was 46 your jersey number playing in germany? why did you chose the sunflower children fund? and how much of your sales proceed goes there? nt @ 2008-06-11 04:37:29
That girl is severly twisted if she doesnt fall for you! I hope you find love and happiness! Daniella @ 2008-06-11 11:57:36
Graham...wow, your one of the best guys on the show. If DeAnna doesn't pick you, you will have no problem finding your one true love. Best Wishes... Valeri @ 2008-06-12 03:53:31
Graham .... You are obviously a special guy with a good heart. I look forward to Monday nights these days. I'm wondering if there are any stores in Oregon carrying the 46 clothing line. Oh yes, Oregon is a great place to visit if you might be looking for a new vacation venue! Juni @ 2008-06-12 06:20:53
Graham you are a great guy and very good looking, good luck on the show and I hope Deanna will pick you. Lisa @ 2008-06-12 20:00:18
Making Raleigh proud! Way to go to not just kiss the girl after she kisses everyone else! Save the best for last! Miss E @ 2008-06-13 14:00:52
Graham Bunn, u r really something! I just know ur gonna win on the Bachelorette..haha even though Jeremy is hot too, but don't worry!! Luv ya! JoAnn J @ 2008-06-13 16:33:44
What a handsome man!!! She will be out of her mind if she will not choose you!!! Good luck!! I know that there will be that special someone for you!! Amy @ 2008-06-13 17:29:41
Graham,
I hope Deanna picked you, you are the most handsome man I've seen on tv, and you have a personality to go with it! Amy @ 2008-06-14 20:35:19
hey ur one great piece of art God ever created and u have the personality to go with it.i really wished De would choose and she would have but I could read if u loved her back they she did.I bet u could have ended the show if u had open up to her and ask to come away with and would and it would have a great ending also.I guess u weren't read to settle down yet.U could have been a great couple have kids to beautify the face of the earth.But as we are hearing u didn't make to final and it is sad.good luck in ur life. elizabrth @ 2008-06-15 21:08:17
How come you never played basketball on the show? Gabby @ 2008-06-17 03:53:40
Graham you are adorable to watch. Keep up the great work! Even though De didn't choose you, I still think she was into you the most. You were a treat to watch tonight. Take care. Cindy @ 2008-06-17 05:32:31
You seem like a Really cool guy Helena @ 2008-06-17 05:35:39
If DeAnna didn't choose you she is crazy, good luck!! Leslie O. @ 2008-06-17 05:46:23
good luck with the clothing line. I think it's great you donate to charities. You seem like a really honest, nice guy....one of the few remaining. If Deanna doesn't choose you...She's crazy! Tonya @ 2008-06-17 06:29:09
Its clear you get this often, but you're beautiful. Inside and out. Lauren @ 2008-06-17 07:35:48
I was proud to see a fellow Mountaineer doing so well. Best of luck on your journey with the charities...I will help spread the word on my end of N.C. :) Marty @ 2008-06-17 15:26:32
Glad to see you're using your Bachelorette exposure for a good cause. You could triple the charitable aspect of your 46 line by purchasing fair trade shirts, made out of organic cotton (unless you do this already). People will pay more for fair trade/organic, so it would be worth your while. Erika @ 2008-06-17 17:27:38
I'll take care of them Bunns! KChrist @ 2008-06-17 21:35:45
You remind me of Ryan...shy but sexy and mysterious. Marla @ 2008-06-18 03:30:37
Action Title Company thinks the world of you. We bought your 46 shirts to wear every Wednesday that we now proud to call National Graham Day! We love you......
Action Title Girls Rachel @ 2008-06-18 17:19:47
Graham. I've read most of your comments & noticed that everyone has repeated the same thing. But i truly believe that DeAnna should pick you & if she doesnt...her loss. You are AMAZING! I wish I could find myself a guy like you.
I 100% support your charity work & will be buying a few of your shirts to show my support. You will find a great woman one day if DeAnna doesn't pick you. Heck! You got a lot fans you could pick from *hint *hint. JK.
but good luck with everything. & thank you for showing us girls that there are amazing men like you out there. we just gotta find them. & thank you for making my monday nights enjoyable...im really gonna miss watching you.
ps - you are very sexy & so hot with your laid back style. Mandie @ 2008-06-18 18:35:25
Ok, If DeAnna didn't pick you, PICK ME!!! I've been searching all my life for a guy like you. I'm sorry if that sounds strange, but you are so laid back, playful, sincere and so darn handsome!!! OMG! PICK ME, PICK ME!!!!! Jen @ 2008-06-18 18:45:00
well well well....aren't you a little slice of heaven?! Thanks for visiting me in my dreams last night! ~*muah*~ Tawny @ 2008-06-18 20:15:25
Ummm yeah. You're HOT. But, I can see why a real woman wouldn't choose you. Guys like you don't settle down...Not with all these chicas throwing themselves at you all the time. You're the kind of guy that will always think he can get better, and maybe you can; but, in the end you're alone. Liz @ 2008-06-18 22:40:42
Graham,
I am not someone who normally blogs or will make comments on websites, but what I do know is there is some crazy attraction between you and D and it has been there from the start!
You don't come across connections like that very often in your lifetime. It is a rare and special gift from God. I know the show is over and I have no idea what the outcome is. I just hope the two of you were able to put down your defenses and let it happen. (And when I say defenses I mean both of you)
My husband and I had immediate attraction, and luckily it has worked out for us (12 years married). It does change over time but I love him more then ever and I always have fond memories of falling in love with him. I think I had a permanent smile on my face for 12 months!
You obviously have that effect on D and from what I can tell you must feel the same way, you just show your feelings more subtly due to your situation (TV).
Good Luck Graham I hope you found love... Kristen @ 2008-06-19 19:44:44
Graham,
I absolutely love you! I love your southern charm, honesty, authenticity, genuineness, etc....
I am drawn to you like no other on this show. I have defended you, tried to protect you, yelled at the TV. I admire you greatly for dedicating your life to helping others. Good Luck with 46.
Good Luck in life and love! Jennifer @ 2008-06-20 18:54:51
Seriously, though, how am I going to get my Graham Bunn fix when the show is over??!?? Maryn @ 2008-06-23 22:11:40
Deanna doesn't know she's AN IDIOT! txdaisy7 @ 2008-06-24 02:09:02
You are seriously the most amazing guy I've never met. :) Catie @ 2008-06-24 02:24:44
Graham... you were the reason I kept watching all these weeks. I picked you to be the final guy from the very first show. The chemistry between you and DeAnna was exciting to watch. I am soo sad she said good-bye to you. I think you should contact DeAnna when the show is over. What do you have to lose? I don't think she is meant to be with any of the last 3. I wish you the best! ELAINE @ 2008-06-24 02:48:01
Graham - Start taking chances; it'll make you a better person. You need to open up; getting hurt is part of life and helps you grow. Good Luck Janet @ 2008-06-24 02:51:24
WOW! If looking at you makes my heart go topsy turvy, I can't imagine what it does to women you actually get to talk to! Too bad I'm married or I'd be on the first plane to NY. Good luck to you. Kim @ 2008-06-24 03:01:24
You represented WFR and ASU well. Graham you are a class act. That one line will go down as one of the all time greatest lines in network television history. Thank goodness I don't have to watch that show anymore! All the best. RW @ 2008-06-24 03:10:08
Graham,
Sorry things didn't work out for you and Deanna. Letter @ the end was sexy!! Wish you the best in the future.... Amber @ 2008-06-24 03:16:50
OMG!!! I am so upset. I wish you the best of luck. You deserve true love. I hope you find it. A great twist to the show is if she realized she made a huge mistake and brought you back! Jenn @ 2008-06-24 03:23:26
Graham, I am married but you are in my top 5 so next time I'm in New York, I'll look you up! wink wink Courtney @ 2008-06-24 03:25:29
Graham,
Just watch the show. She made a huge mistake. I am smitten. You seem real.
Alison, teacher from Colorado @ 2008-06-24 03:30:02
I'm a big fan of yours- and my heart was broken tonight... trust me, you won't have a problem finding love. Good luck to you! If you're ever in MI send me a line :) Amy Smith @ 2008-06-24 03:33:56
Graham,
I believe in miracles and I hope you find someone special in the nearest future because you deserve it. All the best !!! Evangeline @ 2008-06-24 03:47:31
Way to represent Raleigh...you are a wonderful guy and DeAnna def. missed out on a golden opportunity. I think your just perfect...at least us Raleigh girls are happy to see you single :) AA @ 2008-06-24 03:49:58
DeAnna missed out on a special guy. But there is that special girl/lady out there for you!! Lots of love your way.. I will support your charity. You are a hero to many.. Anabela @ 2008-06-24 03:55:07
I am such a ball bag. I boo hooed the whole time I watched that show tonight. Hope all goes well with you in the end. She made the biggest mistake ever. I think after reading your letter she has realized what a mistake she has made. I still love you, though. Maybe you should be the next Bachelor. I would so be in on that. Ashley from Oklahoma @ 2008-06-24 03:57:53
I am in shock!!!!! DeAnna is out of her mind....you are obviously THE GUY for her. She make a huge mistake tonight....perhaps you can come back to the show if she begs....Or even better you can become the next bachelor WOW !!!! You are just AMAZING....Good luck, don't be hurt too long over this...We look forward to seeing you as the next BAchelor.... Em & Jessiie @ 2008-06-24 03:58:48
Graham, Seeing you truly touches a million of people already. They adores you.
I don't want to be one of those people who would find a way to melt you, to smoother you, to cheer you etc.
I am here to tell you that God's will for you will happen one day. Have faith, Graham.
Sunshiney @ 2008-06-24 04:01:30
Wow. This is marketing at it's best. Is this site linked to the Bachelorette or something because I thought this was a site predominately dedicated to Graham and the 46 label? ha Lara @ 2008-06-24 04:09:02
Canada is in shock over DeAnna's decision! This is crazy you were so perfect together! We look forward to seeing you as the next bachelor.
Keep up the great charitable work!
Irene @ 2008-06-24 04:10:40
Graham- As hard as it is 4 you to do so, you have to open up. Just stop thinking so hard about what your going to say just start speaking what is inside you....it will come alot easier than you may believe. Your painfully shy with expressioning your feelings. Im speaking only after having watched you tonight struggling to pull yourself together and telling her how you wanted her more than anything in the world but just wouldn't open up because your more concerned about "how you look to others" who cares your going to miss out on many things in life if you don't work on this. Life goes on you know this but take my "strangerly" advise. I have struggled and overcome this myself thus the reason I felt compelled to comment. Ciao Mr. Bunn Wishing you much love in the future. Email me and we can chat....(not looking to swoon you over as I am married) Tammy in Virginia @ 2008-06-24 04:22:40
Hey Graham.
I really don't know if you are reading this but that is cool if you are.
You open up great to deanna. You are who you are and if she didn't like it then ever thing happens for a reason. You will find your lucky girl some where. You are so fine, with nice abs and your eyes are like the moon shining away. You are very handsome guy. My pick at the very ending was going to be you, it just didn't happen and maybe she real realize one day she should of kept you.
Enough said, just to let you know i am only a teenager so i have no clue what love is. But lets just say i am a Girl basketball player too. So we could ball it up some day! Ha Just kidding.
Good luck in life.
Taylor From Texas @ 2008-06-24 04:53:36
Graham was on the show for the right reasons. I am sorry that it did not work out with you and Deanna. It seemed like there really was a connection.
Although it does make relationships difficult when you internalize and don't force yourself to express your thoughts to your partner.
I wish you the best of luck! ~~tracy~~ @ 2008-06-24 04:57:25
GRAHAM I LOVE YOU!! I might be a little young but age is just a number!! Call me!! Alli @ 2008-06-24 04:59:02
Graham Bunn!!!! I am in love with you and you sexyy abs.
You are so my type!!!!!!!!!! Hailey @ 2008-06-24 05:02:26
GRAHAM I LOVE YOU!!! I might be a little young for you but, age is just a number!! CALL ME!!! Alli @ 2008-06-24 05:02:51
Why did you decide to leave on your own? I know the show edited that she didn't pick, but it obvious that is not what happened....why leave?...why give her a letter? ....what happened?
Confused.... Cindy @ 2008-06-24 05:03:27
Graham, will you be the father of my children? Jane @ 2008-06-24 05:06:27
wait cindy..who eva that is?
he just left on his own how did you find out that? Hailey @ 2008-06-24 05:11:18
Graham,
I have fallen in love w/you...I get you..and you would get me..I am the one that you'd open up naturally to. I am a beautiful, fit latin 32 yr old and appreciates someone just like you..Just say a hello so i know you got my message..
Viviana
Viviana Flores @ 2008-06-24 05:11:42
i thought you were going all the way. I am so sorry. Some lucky girl will get you.. Take care and good luck with the charities.. Shame I am 44.. Roberta Reitz @ 2008-06-24 05:14:06
Fool you ain't takin my graham.
he is my babyyy
and i love himm Hailey @ 2008-06-24 05:14:18
“We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as impossible situations.”
Best Wishes Cheryl @ 2008-06-24 05:16:53
I'm so sad that you left the show. I wish it could've worked out. Hopefully you will find love someday soon. Can't wait to see the "The Guys Tell All" and see what you have to say.
Rosanna @ 2008-06-24 05:17:31
You are absolutely gorgeous and your smile sends a chill through me like a lightening bolt. I was very sad to see you leave tonight but, I'm sure you'll find a wonderful mate. If only I was your age, watch out New York. Morya @ 2008-06-24 05:31:26
I wish she'd kept you around but maybe she's just not the right girl for you - everything happens for a reason. You're an attractive and sexy human being - no matter what anyone says. So keep the faith. Lizzie @ 2008-06-24 05:55:08
graham, find me and we'll change the world together. maybe there is more to life than a show...there is the simple everyday and touching the hearts of other and criss-crossing the world. peace. s @ 2008-06-24 05:58:18
What did the note say? Come on...we are want to know!!! Vanet @ 2008-06-24 06:10:19
Wow, Graham. Your gorgeous & sweet. I hope you're getting over Deanna because the truth is, she would always give you a hard time in life. Just be yourself. Nothing wrong with that. Jaye @ 2008-06-24 06:14:59
i just watched the bachelorette a couple or hours ago, and i was so disappointed. i couldn't believe it seriously though. i was so going for you from the first day you walked in, it's funny me and my girls would hang right and watch the show and i always say before the show starts:
"Graham is so going to win this" even though i don't know you personally i really honest to god thought you came off real and down to earth and i though you opened up as much a you could do to the circumstances. i don't even want to watch the show anymore..lol J/k well i guess it's whatever right? you seem to be doing your thing and you look good doing it I'm pretty sure I'm not the first to say that but keep on doing what you do and i guess just do you. -Rachelle Franko @ 2008-06-24 08:44:37
BOW CHICKA BOW WOW>>>>>CALL ME 867-5309 Jackie C. Mathews @ 2008-06-24 09:41:22
I can't believe it, you were the best one, and I know she will regret it everyday. Her lost. Keep smiling karen @ 2008-06-24 12:47:15
Maybe the "reality show" lime light was just not for you. You are so young and I am sure off the show, restless.... :)
Like they say in Germany, "Stille Wasser sind tief".
Weiterhin viel Glueck!
Elke @ 2008-06-24 13:17:43
Dude, if you could have said something, anything, the bachlorette chick would have kept you. Rob @ 2008-06-24 13:20:55
Graham - You are so lucky to be single! I am a NYC native and I love being single in this town, especially in the summertime. Hopefully you will make the most of your youth and LIVE LIFE ON YOUR OWN TERMS! You are sooo gorgeous, and I hope to bump into to you sometime in the city. Good luck with the 46 fashion line...very cool. BELLE @ 2008-06-24 13:30:36
graham. You are so fine. Have you heard that before?!?!? Bublbles @ 2008-06-24 14:01:17
That is so amazing that you do stuff for charities...I really respect that :)
PS you should model...I'm on Model Mayhem...my website is below if you wanna see what it is :) Amanda @ 2008-06-24 14:13:09
Loving someone that never opens up and lets you in is one of the hardest things to do. You keep hoping that they will lower their walls just a little so that you can peek inside, you spend days and nights thinking of how you can penetrate the armour surrounding their heart and it tears you apart inside. I know how she feels, falling in love with someone like that, no matter how much you care, it destroys who you are slowly. Yearning for them to open up, longing for it. Sigh. I was so hoping that the two of you ended up together. It just looked so right. Lisa G. @ 2008-06-24 14:29:32
Try and turn fully around and face your fears...you can only wonder what if so long. Christine @ 2008-06-24 14:45:36
Graham - I'm just wondering if YOU wanted Deanna?
I once was involved with a man who also couldn't communicate - I totally into him - it didn't work.
I married someone like JASON - who was my best friend ....and still is - and we live in the suburbs and have 3 incredible kids....and its 18 years later
Graham I too was hoping for you - and still am ...you can be a best friend Lanie @ 2008-06-24 14:47:23
Graham you are a handsome young man-But did not seem as sincere on the show as the others-You actually came off as a player just there for fun. You seemed more concerned that you would not look cool on camera if you showed any vulnerability. She was really into you as most women are attracted to the "bad boy type" and most women want the one they can't seem to have-Oh well-I'm sure there will be many women in your life-but none that are ever meaningful -You have alot to offer-but it's time to get over yourself and grow up if you really want a soul mate not a one night stand. Brenda from Wilson NC @ 2008-06-24 14:50:06
:( Oh well. Maybe you just didn't want her??? She sure wanted you to be the one and step out and show her. I think she will always wonder what "might have been". I guess no one knows that....she was not willing to get her heart broke and she is looking for a sure bet. LIFE is no sure bet. She had the feelings for you...but not the trust that you would always be with her.
Peace. Krista @ 2008-06-24 14:52:33
You are so beautiful and mysterious! When the right woman comes along it will all happen naturally! ;) Patty @ 2008-06-24 14:56:41
My Heart is broken...(sigh*)
~Monica
Monica @ 2008-06-24 15:08:41
Graham, I can't believe she didn't chose you!! I think she should have given you a bit more time to open up because it can be hard to do especially in the spotlight. Neverthless I'm sure you'll find the right girl and it'll all come together. P.S. You're very hot and remind me of my ex guy a lot! Marianna @ 2008-06-24 15:27:34
I'm so disappointed for the two of you. I know if you two could have met seperate from a dumb reality tv show you'd be together. I wish the best for you that you can someday find what you are looking for. Good luck to you. Rebecca Squires @ 2008-06-24 15:33:03
Boy did she screw up!! I am still crying. Desiree @ 2008-06-24 15:44:31
The show won't be the same! Good luck to you. Bri @ 2008-06-24 15:48:02
It was painful to watch your heart being broken on national television. You handled yourself well under challenging circumstances, carried on with dignity and grace, and stayed true to yourself throughout. We as viewers don't always get to see what's behind the edit, but I'm sure there was much more there we'll never know. You were a class act on this show, and it's too bad it didn't work out for both of you, since you were clearly in love with each other. Best wishes, and very good luck moving on and finding the love you so clearly deserve. Kathy Riordan @ 2008-06-24 15:49:38
Hey Graham, I'm sure you're not going to read this but I just wanted to say sorry things on the bachelorette didn't work out! I have been looking at your charity work sites and I'm definitely impressed. I do a lot of charity work myself and have become quite passionate about it. If you do happen to see this and ever need any help with your work espeically in Philly, I would love to be involved. Good luck with everything! Ali @ 2008-06-24 15:50:48
OMG!!!! I can't even believe it! Why couldn't you say something, anything??????????? I am heartbroken, I wanted to see you two together soooo bad! Now what is she going to do, pick one of those dorks!?!?!? She is definately going to regret it!!!!!!!!!!! Admirer in NC @ 2008-06-24 16:00:41
darn, i was hoping that she would hold on to you for a little longer. i just know you would have broken and told her what you were thinking. i was hoping you would make it to the end. well, you'll find someone better i know it. good luck to you. nina @ 2008-06-24 16:11:38
Graham - we need you to say somthing Lexi @ 2008-06-24 16:18:18
Communication is the #1 reasons relationships don't make it. Clearly, your style and DeAnna's are opposite even though the attraction was there and you were beginning a relationship. I hope you've learned that you have to move outside your comfort zone share yourself next time around. Good luck, you're obviously a great guy. Ellen @ 2008-06-24 16:28:49
The only way you're going to get what you want - true love and happiness - is to say out loud what you are feeling, scream it if you have to, let it out man! Just let go and let it out when you feel it, at least then you'll know you put it all out there and see what happens. I was heartbroken for both you and DeAnna last night watching that show, truly. Don't hold back again dude, you'll let the love of your life just pass you right by. Good luck in all that you do. Marie @ 2008-06-24 16:30:07
Graham, poor guy who can't put his feelings out there. Your mom didn't help with Deanna by saying that you had never had a lasting relationship. Hope you are thinking of having some counseling because you can't have a long term relationship without sharing your feelings out loud. Was pulling for you, but alas--we'll probably end up with Jessie--OMG! Judy @ 2008-06-24 16:45:33
Graham,
You are smoking hot. I am boycotting the show now that you will no longer be a part of it. If you ever want to run away, Michigan is the perfect place to hide. No one lives here, and I promise I won’t tell anyone you’re hiding out in the Great Lakes State. :)
That being said, I hope you have a fabulous summer! Get down with your bad self!
SMR
Scottie Marie @ 2008-06-24 17:12:25
I know DeAnna is regretting her decision!! I hope you left your phone number in that letter you gave her... because its not going to last with those other guys. She liked you the most! Lisa @ 2008-06-24 17:12:35
Graham, I really thought DeAnna was going to pick you for sure. I was so upset at her decision. Everything happens for a reason though. I know that is must be difficult to open up and share your feelings on camera. I think if camera's weren't around it would have been different. I think you are so handsome and such an amazing guy. I don't see her with any of the other guys, there was such an amazing connection between ya'll. Your charity work is awesome! I am from Raleigh and have lived here my whole life. You represented us well. Kristen @ 2008-06-24 17:24:21
Dude, man I feel for ya, been there done that and I lost the (who I still see as) love of my life because I wouldn't open up to her. It's a hard lesson to learn, but take my advice from one idiot to another, let go if you really feel it for a woman and she feels it for you (it was obvious she was in to you) they all really need a guy that talks to them. I finally figured it out! I am married now to a wonderful woman, but I have to tell ya man, I still wonder what if, about the one I let go (or rather she let me go) because I was being too cool. Sorry dude. Best of luck in the future. Rafe @ 2008-06-24 17:31:54
Graham, it broke my heart to see you not be able to tell her how you felt!! I was crying for you. I know exactly how it feels to think about things you want to say but you just can't verbalize. It's a hard place to be. Don't get stuck there!! I wish you all the best, Mary. Mary T @ 2008-06-24 17:32:14
Just got finished watching the Bachelorette, the episode where she let you go. What was she thinking! I watched the show because you remind me of my husband when we were first dating. He was very reserved, mysterious and difficult to read. But with a little bit of patience (something that I am not good at), I was able to understand. Twelve years later and 3 kids, he opens up to me more, I understand him better, and I'm glad I was willing to take that chance. I can read when something's bothering him. Communication is the key. I enjoyed watching you on the show. Best of luck with your organization. It's nice to know that you have a big heart for children. Deanna let a good man walk away. It's definately her loss. I'm sure you won't have a problem finding love out there. Much success... Janet Leilani @ 2008-06-24 17:34:48
Graham...Why do I have this feeling that Deana is not going to choose any of the remaining 3 but say she is not in love with any of them...it is you she really wants and I truly believe you love her...I just have this feeling--maybe I am just hoping she realizes what she let drive off...... Chris @ 2008-06-24 17:41:17
Graham, I'm so sorry you were punished for what Brad did, and I still think what Brad did was right and honorable. If you're not feeling it, you're not feeling it. The problem was, the two of you (you and Deanna) were feeling it, and Deanna let her temper get in the way of what looked like could have been a wonderful relationship. Here's hoping you soon find someone wonderful for you, and thank you for your philanthropic efforts. Highly commendable. You're a great guy, and a real catch. Gayle @ 2008-06-24 17:41:36
Graham, I don't know what Deanna was thinking?!?!?! I was SO upset watching you leave the show last night-- it is so painfully obvious you both had strong feelings for each other-- I'm sorry to see you leave-- I wish it could have been the happy ending for you two...I just don't understand what happened...last nights show was really sad to watch...didn't want to see you go...all the best... Tam,in MS @ 2008-06-24 17:42:27
I am sorry for what happend BUT not really. You will find someone that doesn't question who you are all the time. She will come along and in a setting that better suits who you are. Amazing work that you are doing. Life goes on, always. Shelley @ 2008-06-24 17:53:40
I"m glad Deanna didn't pick you...we all know she's too high maintenance for a self-proclaimed country girl. And what does SHE have to offer a good man? You are TOO GOOD & WAY TOO HOT for her anyway. I think you're cool and I like the way you handled yourself around her. Way to go! If you're ever in Dallas...look me up! Carolyn @ 2008-06-24 18:07:27
Love the t-shirts, I'm getting one! I'm sure being on the Bachelor helped the marketing for your clothing line, great idea. Thank goodness you didn't hang around for Deanna, but I sure will miss ya on Monday nights. Susanne @ 2008-06-24 18:08:41
You all know that he "probably" did this to get recognized in the media and get his 15 minutes of fame right? It's all marketing baby...and it's working. Good job Graham. I love ya anyway @ 2008-06-24 18:24:20
Graham:
The reason DeAnna let you go is that she had no other choice. She had very strong feelings for you, but you did not give her enough assurance that you were ready to commit. From what I saw on the show, you did not open up enough to let her know that you loved her. If you were not looking for a serious relationship and not ready to get married; you should not have gone on the show. DeAnna was upfront from day one with what she wanted. You said that you have had not long term relationships; the best predictor of future behavior is past behavior; that made DeAnna a very smart woman to be able to let you go even though it is evident that she was hoping you would verbalize and commit yourself to her. You were too big of a risk and Jeremy has shown his love for her and verbalized it often during the show; she would be wise to select him. If you really want a serious relationship; you will need to mature and open up and be ready to walk down the aisle. C. N. @ 2008-06-24 18:41:44
Graham,
I am still crying ove Deannas decison. I wish the show would of brought you back. Truly you two had it. God Bless and keep up the good work with the charities. Theresa @ 2008-06-24 18:41:46
OK so Deanna sucks! You need to be the next bachelor. Maybe ABC will ask you. I would love to watch your fine self on tv again in the near future. You are trully a catch and you WILL make some girl very happy. Cole @ 2008-06-24 18:59:09
Sometimes you have to say what you feel deep inside. Love makes you vulnerable but it also heals old wounds. You're a great guy... too bad you didn't want to show your true feelings because of the darn cameras. You made me cry last night. Nicole @ 2008-06-24 20:04:42
She should have picked you!! I actually shed a tear when you handed her that note. It was so sad. Her loss. You are an amazing and gourgeous man, America has fallen in love with you. I say you should be the next Bachelor. Amanda @ 2008-06-24 20:07:43
Graham,
You are beautiful. Heather @ 2008-06-24 20:10:11
Wow! I had no idea you had this charity! It's a nice side of you to see! I'm still getting over DeAnna letting you go last night - she didn't want to - you could see she was screaming inside for you to say something out loud! I hope you find someone, not sure it'll be on reality tv! Going to miss your hot bod on the show though! Medina @ 2008-06-24 20:16:48
DeAnna made the wrong choice - you are smokin' hot. I'm in love. Alison @ 2008-06-24 20:23:58
I won't kiss other boys!!! Kim @ 2008-06-24 20:29:02
Graham, I really felt pain watching you leave in the bachelorette..I honestly think you are the most genuine person there and I truly hope you will find happiness someday. If you happen to have time, please write me. I am your biggest fan. Sasti @ 2008-06-24 20:31:20
I'm too old for you (and married) but you really brightened up the past few Monday nights. I'd like to see you be the next Bachelor and see more of your true personality (if that's possible on reality tv). Personally, I think strong, silent types are HOT. Best of luck to you. Sharon @ 2008-06-24 20:35:48
Graham, I was devestated by your departure from the bachelorette. I belive you and Deanna are perfect for each other. I will pray that she opens her eyes and invites you back (not sure if that is allowed on the show) as we all know she is in love with you. You two are meant to be and you have to fight for her as none of the other guys deserve her (and you know this). Call her, email her, do whatever you need to to be with her. Pls Patty @ 2008-06-24 20:37:36
If you ever come to Cali, I know of a really cute girl you could call :-) Maile @ 2008-06-24 20:47:03
Oh Graham, watching last night's episode was extremely emotional for me. I hope that DeAnna comes around and realizes that she has made a huge mistake!!! She needs to not focus on what happened to her last seasonw it Brad and think about finding love and not marriage. Good Luck and Best Wishes!!! Layla @ 2008-06-24 20:53:11
OK, Deanna wants 3 kids in 4 years....what a psycho. I, on the other hand just want one hot night under the sheets with you. Ha ha. Best of luck. Lauren @ 2008-06-24 20:59:22
Graham, I picked you for Deanna on the first night of the show. But . . . you blew it dude! Wish you had made it to the end! Jules @ 2008-06-24 21:04:02
Good to see you're doing well my friend. I'm still actively recruiting for the Buffalo Club FYI. Jonathan Seabolt @ 2008-06-24 21:07:46
Deanna messed up! You are beautiful! RM @ 2008-06-24 21:22:38
We are devastated and shocked that DeAnna "sent you home"! She will, no doubt, regret her decision indefinitely. Since the inception of the "Bachelorette", you are the first bachelor who has made the show "worth" watching. You have so many amazing qualities. It's a shame that DeAnna wasn't willing to "hang in there" with you until the end. Instead of giving you the benefit of the doubt, she wasn't willing to take the chance of being turned down, but rather chose to stick with 3 bachelors that she is obviously not in love with, and who are really not who she wants to spend the rest of her life with! R/A @ 2008-06-24 21:29:22
Man I can't believe Deanna just cut you on the show, she could of sent Jason home and kept you around for another 2 weeks. I hope she doesn't find love now, because she should of chose you. Wanda Hurst @ 2008-06-24 21:45:06
I hope you were genuine on the show. Sarah B @ 2008-06-24 21:54:35
I hope in watching last night that you WOKE UP and saw that you need to get it together or you are going to be a lonely, old man! I am glad Deanna didn't keep you..we women too often settle for less than we want or think we can change the man...I am glad she didn't fall in that category. I wish you would have opened up! Boo Hoo AmyNon @ 2008-06-24 21:54:56
Sorry to see you leave the show. My personal opinion, it seemed you were uncomfortable discussing your feelings on camera not having a disinterest in DeAnna. I think she completely misunderstood you. There were several times in the beginning you said you were uncomfortable in the situation. I think she should have followed her heart on this one. She was the one saying to not be scared and to take a chance but in the end, she was the one who got scared and gave up on you. Her loss. Good luck! Bren @ 2008-06-24 22:03:16
graham, you have the most beautiful eyes and teeth, and...smile, and well... you get the point. what was deanna thinking? i am sure there was more to the story than what was portrayed, but i wish you the best of luck in life, you seem like a very down to earth guy who is just very mindful of what you say, not shy or incapable of emotion as some might say. i cried my eyes out watching last nights episode. lann in atlanta @ 2008-06-24 22:13:11
Last night was very painful to watch! Really enjoyed you on the show. I hope that you find what you are looking for! DTB @ 2008-06-24 22:23:00
Graham, I will miss seeing you on the show... My Monday nights just won't be the same with out you there!!! Keep on smiling :) If y Diane @ 2008-06-24 22:39:20
Are you gay? Shell @ 2008-06-24 22:54:09
Graham, I used to be the female version of you in relationships. Once you open up and trust you will find out how amazing love is. You have to take risks to get the reward! Mindy @ 2008-06-24 23:02:31
well, i might as well throw my two cents in here. it's nice being physically attractive. it makes life easier in some ways and harder in others. people treat you nice and fall in love with you easily. deep down you might feel insecure. your insides might have a hard time living up to standard people place on you based on your outer shell. from the brief glimpse we all get of you or anyone on a show, it's impossible to know much about the true spirit living within. i hope your spirit is beautiful, and i hope all people will start seeing with more than eyes, and realize that beyond our body is where we can truly find ourselves. peace, love, and happiness to all. b in ky @ 2008-06-24 23:07:51
sooo....haha
wanna go with us on the boat to masonboro over july 4th? i mean-dang-might as well have fun now, right? haha
what?! nyc more exciting than wrightsville beach?! nah...
maybe we'll see you out there...! Ashley @ 2008-06-24 23:13:16
I would like to know more about your clothing line; I would like to but some of it. Thank you michelle thibodeau. Bye the way I love BasketBall and i was so happy when Boston Celtric's won.. woohoo Bye the way I'm from Boston Mass. michelle thibodeau @ 2008-06-24 23:37:05
I didn't think Deanna was your type anyway. You are too hot for her......Nice clothing line also. Mindy @ 2008-06-25 00:08:28
You have been one of my favorites since the start. I can't believe you are leaving. When you left it was so touching, I cried.I wish you had opened up to her, but I also understand it was probably overwhelming to have the cameras in front of you all the time.I could sense you wanted it to be just you and Deanna. I think you both fell in love. I have read about you and you have a great heart and not to mention you are gorgeous!!!!!!! Good luck to you. Dee @ 2008-06-25 00:09:03
You are tto hot for Deanna anyway....Also nice clothing line. Mindy @ 2008-06-25 00:10:10
Graham--You are BY FAR the hottest guy EVER on the Bachelor...I relate to you because I'm not a big emotional girl; who cares--your hot & nice:) Marci @ 2008-06-25 00:13:30
awww poor bunny :( I'm sorry she didn't pick you, but you took it like a man(actually, it kind of looked like you ASKED to leave). Try a Canadian girl, eh? heheheh Amanda @ 2008-06-25 00:24:12
can't believe she didn't choose you! real love comes after a little more time..not as fast as she expects! love the pics...esp the ones with the facial hair...stay sexy Amber (fort bragg) @ 2008-06-25 00:44:59
You should go back on the show and tell it all..that would be a first...go claim your girl Pam @ 2008-06-25 00:49:39
You are so hot and genuine! It must have been difficult opening up, sharing your soul and emotions in front of cameras. Wish you the best in love and in life. Angie Fenton @ 2008-06-25 01:14:50
If only Deanna had followed her heart. The connection and sparks between you showed clearly. No doubt, you didn't feel the need to that on camera. Completely understood! Angie (Los Gatos, Ca) @ 2008-06-25 01:18:37
I would buy what ever you are selling. I would really like to see more of you on the big screen. you were always my favorite. Who needs a girl who always needs to be right anyways. Thanks for putting yourself on the line and giving up your privacy so the rest of us could see you. It made me happy to watch you be yourself up there in tv land and not play their game but your own game. I live in Alaska and I think maybe an alaskan reality show would be really cool too.
Anyways. thanks for letting us see that oh so private side of you. makes me think there's hope for the rest of us that just want to be who we are dispite what other people think we should be.
You are totally awesome. And you really have a great laugh. Hopefully they will make you the next bachelor so I get to see more of you. it was pure delight. Kim Carney @ 2008-06-25 02:25:43
Graham...Deanna really made a huge mistake!!! You are such an amazing man. Good Luck with your clothing line...keep doin what your doin....You are smoking!!!! xoxox Jamie @ 2008-06-25 02:48:42
I think it is wonderful what you do. Losing your dream is tough, especially when caused by a physical injury. But in the end you are helping to accomplish other dreams for children, and that is what counts.... Heather Youngs @ 2008-06-25 02:49:48
Graham,
Hope you're able to cope with all this crazy attention. The DeAnna chapter in your life will close when you want it to. If you truly love her, you may choose to prove it to her and that way she'll appreciate you ten times more (and, it's a lot more romantic). On the charity side, if I were you I would be having conversations with major department stores and possibly ABC.com to sell your clothing online and across America (that is, if their terms are reasonable), that way you could probably help a lot more kids.
Regards :) Lauren M. @ 2008-06-25 03:04:11
Not only are you smokin hot, I love that you are helping kids along the way in your life. D missed her chance with you. I believe you are a very sincere person with a caring heart. What an inspiration you are! Renee @ 2008-06-25 03:14:45
you probably never read these
noelle gnagey @ 2008-06-25 03:57:16
I think it was ridiculous that Deanna lit into you after she had already made her decision. What was she trying to achieve? Was she trying to make you feel worse, or herself feel better? Neither is appropriate and if she'd been a class act she'd have simply wished you well and thanked you for the time you spent. I was really impressed with how well you handled it. It's a shame that it didn't work out if you truly wanted it to, but I think you dodged a bullet. She seemed too insecure to be with someone who wouldn't be the "Chatty Cathy" doll she wanted them to be. Good luck with whatever the future holds for you. Linda @ 2008-06-25 04:05:04
Graham, you are extremely attractive in every way... keep up the good work! maybe one day I'll get a chance to play ball with you ;)
my heart goes out to you...
you'll get your girl one day... Michelle @ 2008-06-25 04:09:34
I still can't stop crying looking at you going in the limo. My heart aches and I can only imagine how it must be for you. But Graham, nobody ever said life is gonna be easy; but they definitely say it's WORTH IT! Don't be sorry that it's over. Be happy that it happened. You are definitely a much better person now. God Bless You!
P.S:If they invite you to be the next Bachelor, DON'T DO IT. You are not the one who can find love with 10,000W lights and crazy cameras hanging around you all the time. Vedha @ 2008-06-25 04:11:21
Graham, I knew there was something very special about you. As a mother and grandmother, it broke my heart watching last night's episode of the Bachelorette. Know that you have a lot of Fans out there who love ya! Still hopeing that there's a twist and some way....some how you return. I know the show is edited and we didn't get to see what really happen. I'll say this....I felt the love and connection coming through my television set with the two of you. Just like with Matt and Shayne so I'm praying this is not the end. By the way.... I will be ordering a shirt. Really love the cause! Cindy @ 2008-06-25 04:13:25
Graham,
Deanna will forever regret her decision unless by some twist of fate she persuades you to come back. Her decision made my heart hurt, because I saw myself 15 years ago. I let the man I had passion for slip away and made the "safe choice". I regretted it from that moment forward. She will too. Everyone could see your depth as a person ... and only a handful knew of your truly giving spirit. Keep up the great work for children ... you are a fantastic role model. Oh, and just so you know .... if Deanna isn't smart enuf to bring you back then I wish you great love ... there is one lucky woman just waiting to hold your heart. All the best .... ~M @ 2008-06-25 04:39:54
you are unbelievably hot and I don't know what DeAnna was thinking.
i'm praying for a twist, the show needs you. mary @ 2008-06-25 06:27:19
So...does this mean that you're single now?! I said from the very first episode that if she didn't pick you that I was going to hunt you down for myself. I think you are a catch and she was out of her mind to let you go!!! Marissa @ 2008-06-25 09:22:05
GRAHAM IS HOT !!!!!!!!
He will be the next BACHELOR !!!!! Margie & Claudia @ 2008-06-25 11:20:26
Graham was the guy that should of ended up with DeAnna. Bachelor here comes GRAHAM BUNN !!! Margie & Claudia @ 2008-06-25 11:21:34
Just curious how you came about starting this, its truly amazing! Best wishes Allie @ 2008-06-25 12:26:06
Why the heck didn't you open up? Everyone was wanting you to be the guy!!! Deanna and you had such chemistry. You must learn to open up to have a valable and meaningful relationship!!! Tracy @ 2008-06-25 15:45:54
Sigh.... I'm heart broken, really and truly heart broken. So many things are being said about the both of you, so many speculations and insinuations when we are only being shown what ABC WANTS us to see. Not every minute of the day, but a few choice clips here and there to create the storyline that they want. There "appeared" to be a connection between you both, and it sizzled, but was it actually there? I agree with most folks that she couldn't keep her hands off of you and that much was evident, the attraction was there for her for sure. You seemed withdrawn and even a bit jealous when she dated the other guys which to me indicates real feelings involved. Sigh. Bottom line is - DeAnna has been hurt badly in the past and had her heart broken by that idiot Brad (his loss your gain) and you seem to be a bit afraid to risk your heart as well. Is that the case? In order for this to end right, I think she should ditch all the "Js" left and find a way to hop in that damn limo and make her way back to you. But that's my lil fantasy.... bah humbug at this whole situation. It sucks. I was so hoping she'd end up with you because I think she's the right woman for you and I think you're the right man for her. You could have helped heal her heart and bring love back into her life. Awwwww man, I'm depressed all over again. Sigh. DownInTheDumps @ 2008-06-25 16:36:19
Graham...stay true to yourself. That's all there is. Marriage isn't about the proposal or the wedding, it's what happens after the presents are unwrapped and the thank you notes sent. We think you're fine just the way you are! (And your parents seem really great too!) Jan @ 2008-06-25 16:41:47
It's pretty obbious that you just didn't want to open up with all of the crazy cameras everywhere --- seriously, who could be sincere with 2-5 other people around all the time FILMING your every word! The crappy thing is that DeAnna just couldn't take the chance to not have her feelings returned and she had to make a decision. You can see the total devastation in her when she says she is worried that she might not be able to find love here now...that is because she is in love with YOU! She is now going to have to settle for the safer choice for the show's sake, but will always have you in the back of her mind. You should go back there and get her!! No cameras, just you and DeAnna. Forget the show, the press and everything...just make it right with you and her. Candis @ 2008-06-25 16:45:45
hi, your amazing but i think you have already heard that.
why germany?? cassie @ 2008-06-25 18:07:30
I'm glad Deanna didn't pick you. You seem like a really good guy and I think you deserve better than Deanna. I'm sure you will find an amazing women who will love you just the way you are! D @ 2008-06-25 18:24:21
Graham, I’m so upset about what happened…so I’m sending this note to purge a bit…hopefully this will help me get over it…as ridiculous as that must sound. I thought you and DeAnna were great together…so natural…so real…she seemed to be more herself whenever she was around you. The tiny 2% romantic in me is hoping that that is how it really was between the two of you and that it was not just the editing….if it was the editing then that person should get an Oscar. The dates she had with the “other” guys were like job interviews…mostly awkward and uncomfortable. I’m feeling that the majority of The Bachelorette viewers were very unhappy to see you leave. The two of you reminded me of the beginning of my relationship with my hubby…you know the dating part when I was 22 then and he was 24 (now I’m 30 and he’s 32)…only difference was that I was more like you and he was more like her….but it was so easy…and so natural…we just fit together…and in the same breath we didn’t have the challenges to deal with that you and DeAnna had -- 24 other guys standing in the way and camera’s in your faces 24/7. If the two of you had met under normal circumstances then I am sure it would have been wonderful. I am still hopeful that you two might be able to work it out but that might just be my wishful thinking. I have watched The Bachelor and The Bachelorette pretty regular over the seasons but never felt the need to comment until now….and I am not the overly emotional type but watching your exit on Monday…to quote DeAnna, just “broke my heart”…..and watching the clips on youtube didn’t lessen the feeling….the emotion at the moment between the two of you was just….heartbreaking…heartbreaking describes it best…you know the kind where your throat starts hurting and you can’t swallow. It could have been so great between the two of you…
P.S. Make sure that you continue to edit these posts – some of these posters are just horrible haters.
P.P.S. If it was “real” and you still have an opportunity – take it…..and if you don’t have an opportunity – then make it…make the opportunity happen…if it was “real”.
Nev @ 2008-06-25 18:25:05
Poor Deanna she really liked you and it looks like you were just trying to get exposure Nicke @ 2008-06-25 18:45:29
Graham is so hot. I wish he showed more for De Anna so she would pick him. KF @ 2008-06-25 19:37:53
I just saw your diary of departed on ABC...I'm sure it will "happen" for you. I believe everyone has that somebody special that is just for them. You need someone who can understand you, not push you constantly to be what you are not. Come on down to Jacksonville Fl, I'm a southern girl who understands :) S @ 2008-06-25 19:41:12
Graham ~ thank you for just being you on the show. That's showing who you really are and your true self. Christa @ 2008-06-25 19:46:07
Dude, lots of chemistry but from where I was sitting that kind of stuff leads to wild ups and downs in a relationship. I could tell you guys would be the couple that love each other CRAZILY, but argue, butt heads, communication issues, etc and it would be a long drawn out road for both of you but in the end not work (that's assuming you got past 5 months). She made the right choice. Sorry. YRP @ 2008-06-25 22:08:35
Wow, Graham looks better without facial hair. Ikee @ 2008-06-25 22:52:01
Love the facial hair!!! Mary T @ 2008-06-25 23:16:25
Me and my mom were devastated that DeAnna didn't pick you! She missed out! I respect that you weren't going to put on a dog and pony show because you were on TV. That's what a real man is all about. You'll find someone who can respect quiet strength; just hang in there! KaLeah @ 2008-06-26 00:15:25
Okay....you are the bad boy. The one that all the girls fall for, and then get their heart broken. I have always been attracted to guys like you...the good looking, tall, dark, and hard to get. Even though Deanna wanted you BAD, I totally know why she let you go. You are the coolest, and the least dorky of all the guys...but you are the one that will break her heart in the end.....It will take you a long time to get serious with a girl...but dang....she will be LUCKY!! YOU ARE HOTTTTT texan @ 2008-06-26 00:54:17
She is CRAZY!! You can't spill your heart out to someone in a few weeks....If she felt like ya'll had something, and she was in love with you, then she needed to take the chance to see what is there between you and her off the show...even if things did not work out in the end....because she loves YOU and NOT those other guys....it is so obvious...now she will never know, and she will have total regret. When she is with whoever, she will be thinking of you. She did not go with her heart, she was trying to be too practical. You are such a hottie and a sweetie....I would have chosen you even if I got dumped in three weeks...(that is what your mom said) Graham Bunn, you are yummy! This show is going to make all the girlies go crazy for you! Not that they don't already!!! xoxoxoxoxo Jordan @ 2008-06-26 01:12:50
It was a sad show to watch, but you are who you are. You have alot going for you, Graham. Stay true. Be strong. And know that people DO care about what happens to you. Laurie @ 2008-06-26 01:43:30
Dear Graham, I wrote to you at your web address instead of this, no wonder the comment didn't come up. I hope you saw it anyway, it was signed "A freind in the desert". Follow your own path gentle person, and be the best of who you are, your parents certainly are a great example, and I know they are proud of you. What a beautiful, bessed, and kind spirit. You are a leader and know that it's ok not to be like all the rest, as you said with DeAnna. I see your potential in many many great ways.
Thanks for making an ole woman smile. :)
A friend in the desert.
Bess @ 2008-06-26 02:10:35
Wow, just finished watching the diary comments on the person leaving the show. Its clear from that video that you didn't fall in love with her and obviously wanted out of the show. Wow!! talk about reading a situation wrong, poor DeAnna... Was this all just a way to get exposure??? If so, that's too low for words. I hate thinking that of you but damn, based on the stuff you said in that vid clip, it looks like you just wanted to draw it out for as long as you could and then cut out before it became too late. If they make you the next bachelor you certainly will get your wish won't you... exposure exposure exposure. Wow... what a let down. OMG @ 2008-06-26 03:14:34
Deanna really made an error in her judgment, and you know she knows it.....however, that whole issue she has with "being wrong" and having to stick to her word, even to the extent of her pride playing a negative role in her decisions, really turned on her in the end. Totally ridiculous. If she kept you on, then her definitive stance on being up front and show me you want to marry me or your gone would mean less to everyone, including viewers. So even though she cut you.....it just goes to show, do you really want someone who would do that to you in order to save face? Where are the priorities? No explanation should ever be needed. If you are the one person that the rules did not apply to, then everyone would just have to deal with it. Whatever, it does add up....you'll be fine, there are plenty of Deanna's out there. Even if you do not think so right now........=D Kyle Liv Johnson @ 2008-06-26 03:17:50
And ! There is absolutely nothing wrong with only having had one previous relationship. I am nearly 33, and my only relationship that lasted over 3-4 months was when I was in high school !! More so then not, someone always knows when it hits about 3 months of spending time with someone whether or not you want to invest more time in that person. Believe me, I love watching the show, however, it is not successful because it is way too aggressive. And it only proves even more just how flighty peoples' engagement are today, and that is sad. Kyle Liv Johnson @ 2008-06-26 04:37:55
OMG...can't believe that DeAnna would have been so crazy as to let you go. I think the chemisty was so hot, she couldn't stand the heat and needed you to show her a bit more of your feelings, but can't say that I blame you with all the cameras and people around. You're the real deal. She'll come back to you. How can she not.
You so reminded me of Noel in the Notebook with the connection between you two. I think you need to barge into the final rose ceremony and sweep her up. You two belong together and will be together...she just doesn't know it yet. But I think you do. Go get her! Sandi @ 2008-06-26 08:11:50
Greetings from Hamilton, Ontario Canada. I just want to say what amazing work you are doing for these kids. Also I think you are absolutely a Handsome men and any women would be like to have you..LIKE MOI!! anyhow I think your too good for DeAnna..She is too much into herself. I was hoping she would choose you at the end. Her loss, someone elses gain. Bye for now From Mary in Canada who admires you..xoxo Mary Kassar @ 2008-06-26 11:38:57
He did want her. So don't feel sorry for him. He did not want to nor was he ready to settle down with her and have 3 kids in 3 years. Can't blame him. Watch the video of his exit comments on the Bachelorette site. I think there was some sort of disappointment on his side...but not sure in what. Krista @ 2008-06-26 11:52:02
DIDN'T Want HER I mean :) Krista @ 2008-06-26 13:21:04
I think you liked her back, but like most of us, you are camera shy- who wants to pour out their heart on TV anyway??. I aint mad at you for that. You are cool and smart and brilliant. DeAnna made a huge mistake. You are too good for her. You'll be ok;-) Heather @ 2008-06-26 19:18:58
Lord you are a beautiful man. Lori @ 2008-06-27 00:10:32
I commend you as a true Southern Gentlemen. You knew exactly what you wanted in life and didn't want to hurt the person who was falling in love with you. Once you knew that she wanted more than you wanted, you did the right thing. Never ever apologize for what you want in life....you ARE the only person in your life that can make you totally happy. Always remember that it is a privilege for a person to be in your life as it is a privilege for you to be in theirs. Congrats and best wishes on your future. Teresa @ 2008-06-27 01:43:15
Didnt really believe it was you til I saw your senior pic @ your parents house. You look amazing and have done so well for yourself. Dont change ever! Your mystery makes you who you are. Always has. Liked how you brought her back to the high school gym though! Take care & good luck with everything. Kristen Schuck @ 2008-06-27 02:36:26
Graham, After I read Raleigh Newspaper about what you have said. That was very bravest to do. Actions show more then words. You know what you want. Way to go, Gra. Always smiling... Sunshiney @ 2008-06-27 03:25:51
It was all that blinking wasn't it! Chipster @ 2008-06-27 03:53:38
Graham, I find it hard to believe that I cam doing this, but wanted to let you know that I have never been affected by a TV show until now. I would watch other Bachelor(ette) shows but never care about the end result until this season. Maybe it's because you remind me of my husband - basketball player, fun, hot and also one who keeps his emotions pretty much to himself. After 10 years of marriage and 3 kids, he still doesn't express his feelings as much as I might like. One doesn't have to say how they feel as words can be cheap, but rather it's how you treat people that speaks volumes. My husband is convinced that your departure is all a ploy of the producers and you will be back. I hope so! I think the work that you are doing with the kids and charity just makes you even better catch! I pray that you find what will make you happy. Sharon @ 2008-06-27 04:08:56
WELL I DO NOT KNOW WHAT ALL TO SAY BUT I AM SORRY!
I DO STILL HAVE FAITH,I SEE DEANNA PULLING A BRAD AT THE END OF THIS SHOW.EVERYBODY IN AMERICA COULD SEE THE FEELINGS YOU TO SHARED.
IT IS EASY TO OPEN UP AND PLAY A ROLE FOR AMERICA WHEN THAT IS ALL IT IS BUT TO OPEN UP AND SHOW THE WORLD THAT YOU ARE FALLING IN LOVE WITH A WOMAN IS DIFFERENT.IT IS LIKE YOU SAID AT THE END,YOU'RE NOTE WAS FOR HER AND HER ALONE NOT FOR THE SHOW AND NOT FOR THE MILLIONS OF PEOPLE WATCHING.I DO AGREE WITH DEANNA,YOU DO KEEP STUFF AND FEELINGS BOTTLED UP INSIDE,AND YES SHE IS NOT USED TO THAT BUT LEARNING TO SHARE YOU'RE THOUGHTS AND FEELINGS CAN BE DONE.IT JUST TAKES TIME AND SURELY CAN NOT BE DONE ON TV BUT IT IS SOMETHING YOU START TO DO AS THE LOVE GROWS STRONGER.I HAVE BEEN WITH MY HUSBAND FOR 8 YEARS NOW AND AM ONLY 26 BUT HE IS OLDER 45.I LOVE HIM WITH ALLOF MY HEART,HE IS THE BEST THING ASIDE FROM MY KIDS THAT HAS EVER HAPPENED TO ME BUT HE IS VERY BOTTLED ABOUT THINGS.IT IS HARD TO GET HIM TO TALK ABOUT THINGS WHEN THEY ARE BOTHERING HIM BUT HE HAS COME ALONG WAY.THE MOST IMPORTANT THING IN OUR RELATIONSHIP THOUGH IS I NEVER DOUBT HIS LOVE OR FORGET HOW MEANNING FULL OUR LOVE IS.
DEANNA SAID IT ALL AFTER SAYING GOODBYE TO YOU,FOR MOST ABOVE EVERYTHING SHE WANTS TO FIND LOVE.SHE EVEN KNEW THAT SAYING GOODBYE TO YOU WAS MOST LIKELY SAYING GOODBYE TO THAT AS WELL.NO BOD IS PERFECT,WE ALL HAVE FLAWS(WE ARE HUMAN.DEANNA SHOULS STOP LOOKING FOR THE ONE SHE CAN LIVE WITH AND THEN SHE WOULD SEE YOU ARE THE ONE SHE CAN NOT LIVE WITH OUT. DARCY @ 2008-06-27 04:11:45
i've never done that before and i am sure that you gonna laugh at it if you read it but i wanna know how can we get to know u , i mean personally??
I really would love to talk to you...thx and sorry about what happen in the show...I am sure after that you gonna have tones of fans...i wish you the best Graham and stay how you are, don't change for no one..you don't have to talk because your eyes tell all...but she didn't get it...too bad for her
but good for us coz you still single LOOOlll...Take care. Faith @ 2008-06-27 06:36:17
Graham,
Sorry things didn't work out and I'm certainly not posting to diss Deanna. Thank you for sharing yourself with a world of complete strangers. You are a genuine, kind, compassionate man with a zest for life and for sharing his good fortune. I've been on your charity websites and love the work you do for them. I have made my own donation and will purchase a 46 shirt to remember you by. Thank you for showing us single woman there is still great men out there! I've had 2 terrible relationships (one very abusive) and I have come out of them a better person knowing my soulmate is out there. You gave me hope again.
I also like to be involved with charities and maybe we can be the next Brad and Angelina? .... Changing the world a piece at a time. It was a pleasure to know you. It's sad parting. Maybe someday in Canada I can give you a tour of Montreal. It's a great city!
Stay true. (by the way what makes you sexy is your inner soul) Green Eyed Siren @ 2008-06-27 15:24:25
Lawdddd boi, you hotter than hot. I have watched all the clips, read the interviews etc etc and I have one conclusion and one conclusion only. I want you to be the next Bachelor. I want to be able to see your tight hot body on my 60" TV screen every Monday night for a minimum of 2 hours. Either that or you need to jump your sweet a** on a plane and come down to the Caribbean - we'll show you how its done just right. Nothing but sun, sea, sand and (cough) yea you know what I'm talking about, don't pretend like you're not smiling right now reading this. Heck sweetcheeks we don't need ya to tell us what's on your mind or talk to us because if its one thing we Caribbean women love, its a man who knows that ACTIONS speak louder than words. And you know what kinda action I'm referring to right lol. Seeing as we're such a hospitable bunch down in the islands, you don't even have to pack clothes, we'll provide you with a lil red speedo and matching cap (seeing as you seem to love them and walk with one all the time) but confidentially between you and me, clothing is strictly optional and if left up to me, not necessary. (Are you laughing hysterically yet? Baby Boy you ain't see nothing yet...) I'm glad De didn't pick ya, because with all this exposure you're getting, they are sure to pick you up as the next Bachelor and why the heck not, a chance to date 25 beautiful women at the same time (not as beautiful as us Caribbean chicks but hey, whatcha gonna do right). We also want PLENTY exposure of you (oppsss my bad) I mean for you and your clothing line lol. Grins at ya and smacks ya butt - yeaaaaaaaaa baby! DeRealFirecracker @ 2008-06-27 15:28:31
I am bummed, no more Graham to watch. If anyone from TV land reads this PLEASE make Graham Bunn the next bachelor! It will send every woman into a tisy! It would be the most watched Bachelor EVER! Any woman on this earth would be crazy not to fall for you Graham. DeAnna just chickened out. You are so affectionate too! What a snuggle bug. Until then I am hopeful I will get a chanch to watch you again and remember what it was like to fall in love. Thats why I love the show after all. Jen @ 2008-06-27 17:25:30
Graham
Im super sorry things didnt work for you with DeAnna. I give tou major props for even putting yourself out there like that. It showed you cared evn though you didnt express it verbally. They say say thinga happen for a reason and maybe they are right?? (whoever they are :) ) Good luck maybe we will see you on the next Bachelor?? Whatever you do in life Im sure you will succeed.
P.S. I wouldnt want to be one of many" either. Erin @ 2008-06-27 17:27:18
So it was just the fancy editing after all...that's too bad. The network should be ashamed…this time the viewers were the ones that got led on…
Anyway, I still think you were great to watch on TV and not just because you’re fine (as hell) but because you came off as the most “real” out of the bunch…DeAnna included…
I never did like her in The Bachelor with Brad…she was very argumentative with the other girls in the house and quite the little trouble maker (have a look at those shows and you’ll see what I mean) – I was rooting for Jenni to “win” that one…
When The Bachelorette Season 4 started I didn’t much care who she ended up with….then I started liking her…but only because it appeared she started liking you…
Anyhow, take care…
Nev @ 2008-06-27 18:22:45
Graham,
I'm going to miss you so much on the Bachelorette! In fact, I probably won't watch the last few episodes! You made this married, fourty-something woman feel young again! Thanks! I think you are very wise, compassionate, and honest. I think some young lady is going to be very lucky to have you in her future! I admire you for wanting to take your time in relationships. I really wanted it to work out with you and DeAnna because I am such a hopeless romantic and love happy endings. However, I understand that you don't take relationships and marriage lightly. I wish more people were like that! I've been married 25 years and it takes hard work! I'm from the South, too, and just wanted you to know that you represented the South and the state of North Carolina wonderfully. I think your parents have done a wonderful job raising you and I commend you for being the southern gentleman that you are and being honest to yourself! Good luck with your career. What a great guy you are for helping those less fortunate! Best Wishes, Olivia olivia @ 2008-06-27 18:23:25
Too bad you couldn't really open up on the show - at least that is what is appeared on tv... I thought you two made a beautiful couple and I was cheering for you all the way! I do hope you find true love in your life and wish you the best. Easy on the eyes... : ) B @ 2008-06-27 18:40:28
You are S-E-X-Y as they come.
H-O-T as hell. Dee @ 2008-06-27 19:53:20
Too bad... Florida @ 2008-06-27 20:26:11
This is ridiculous. This site is ridiculous. Issues! sofia @ 2008-06-27 20:28:14
Would love to get a chance to open you up.. Alexis @ 2008-06-27 21:54:00
Would love a chance to open you up.. Alexis @ 2008-06-27 21:55:10
Glad you didn't open up on TV, thats for no one but you and whom ever...best of luck! ... A.Bunn @ 2008-06-27 23:21:23
You made The Bachelorette this season, and now it positively sucks. I loved Deanna, and I honestly felt sorry and sad for her when she sent you home, because like all of the fans, she realized what a huge mistake she made. Best of luck, whether it be staying single, becoming the next Bachelor or falling in love. :) Bekah Roberts @ 2008-06-27 23:35:51
Graham,
Thanks for staying true to yourself on the show last week. It shocked me to see you leave the show so early. I was convinced you were the perfect bachelor for DeAnna. Guess it was wrong timing for you two. Forget what everyone is saying about you not opening up and expressing your feelings. I am just like you. I handle my problems internally too. I wish you the best of luck with your future endeavors with your clothing line and finding love. When you least expect it your soulmate will show up in your life. Thanks for keeping it real Graham!!! Hope to see you see as the next bachelor or on the runway!! Angela @ 2008-06-28 00:29:39
Graham,
I have to say that I really enjoyed watching you on the bachelor. My husband thinks I am nuts always talking about the bachelorette season 4 but i just liked you and DeAnna together. I hope to see you as the next Bachelor. If not maybe i'll order one of these T-Shirt just to annoy my husband haha. Toula @ 2008-06-28 05:28:47
Graham, I don't usually do this kind of thing, but i've been watching the show and I'm not sure if I really believe your initial intentions for going on the show was about DeAnna or about promoting your business. At this point, it's mute because you have generated real insterest from a mass market of folks so with that said, in the end I hope you do raise awareness for your charities. It will all be worth it, i guess. African American Girl @ 2008-06-28 12:44:10
Graham,
I watched the show and fell in love with you and DeAnna and believing you might really find love. She did ask you why you were there and you replied, "for you". If you were there for her, why could you not hang in there and give her some hope that you were there for her. Wish you could have stayed one more week for the fantasy dates... I was so upset the way the show ended and I was practically crying and stunned. You not only hurt DeAnna, but you also disappointed your fans when you clammed up. If you can write a note to her, why could you not just tell her in person. I hope someone does not break your heart like you broke DeAnna's. You knew she was looking for "love" and marriage. You should have left sooner if you were not or not that into her.
Janice Janice from California @ 2008-06-29 01:30:37
simply unbelievable. jane @ 2008-06-29 10:11:26
you really made a mistake by not opening up jenni @ 2008-06-29 19:08:18
Check the link below to Graham's full interview with various news media: http://www.abcmedianet.com/assets/pr/html/062708_03.html
Angie (Scotts Valley, Ca) @ 2008-06-30 00:50:37
After reading your conference call interview, I was surprised to hear you say you were not in love with her and would not fall in love with her without the cameras. It was eye-opening. Maybe she was too pushy and argumentative for you? I don't know... However, I think the two of you had enough to fall in love. Be open and give it a chance. Not necessarily with her but, with another good woman. I do believe you ARE a good guy. Actually a great guy. A guy doesn't have to wear his heart on his sleeve 24/7 in order to be a good-hearted man. I don't think you did the show to promote yourself. If it brought awareness to your charity then good for the children who ned the help. Keep up the good work. Be open. Find someone who makes you laugh and smile... someone who can be as charitable as you. Wishing you the best life can bring. Stacey M @ 2008-06-30 03:46:14
You were my personal pick of all the men right from the moment you stepped out of the car. I did not even know anything more about you until this morning when I googled you and discovered your basketball ties and your charity and clothing efforts. It's all quite impressive and mature, and makes you that much more attractive.
DeAnna wronged you, not you her. Good for you to have the strength to not compromise who you are for a dumb show. She doesn't deserve you. You are better off by far. There are so many of us out here available and wishing we could meet you, you will find her. Someone that likes you for who you are and how you feel, and not because of the rules of a reality show, or for what you have or because the world thinks you're hot.
Don't stop looking. Good luck to you. Michaella @ 2008-06-30 16:50:19
Wouldn't that be a treat.... you as the next Bachelor!!! Gia @ 2008-06-30 21:04:35
What an amazing guy!! Saw you on the bachelorette and well I am speechless. You are just as an amazing person as Deanna and you should leave yourself open to the possibilities of being in love. I only wish I had the opportunity to meet someone like you. I'm single and looking by the way ;) Crae @ 2008-07-01 01:26:24
Do you still play for the Celtics? If so, congrats on the ring! jonathan c @ 2008-07-01 02:00:51
Opening up is so over rated...and why was she so rude at "the men tell all" seriously confess your love ha ha ha...plans Friday night? We'll be in Charleston, SC always ready to have fun! Your site looks great, Good Luck! Stephanie & Ashley @ 2008-07-01 02:15:38
Graham--count your blessings! You should be glad the relationship with Deanna did not work out. I think we got to see a little of the edited side of her---she was so disrespectful and harsh during the MTA. It is certainly evident that she is NOT over you.
Anyway, on to better things for you! Hopefully, you will be the next Bachelor. If not, how will we all get our Graham Bunn fix! It's an issue. FW @ 2008-07-01 02:17:58
Wow.. you are so cute!!! What an amazing guy u are... Deanna's loss is every other woman's gain.. so excited u live in NYC.. Hope to meet u one day... Nina L. @ 2008-07-01 02:51:48
Deanna was crazy for not picking you. I was behind you the whole way. Your sweet innocent shyness won me over. Brennan @ 2008-07-01 03:12:21
Well, Graham Bunn, I must say I dig the smart a$$ in you! Your comments on MTA tonight were classic! I think it's great that you stayed true to who you are! Lots of girls love that strong silent type. And while that might not have been what Deanna was looking for, believe me... the right girl for you will find that completely irristable! Happiness in love will definitely happen for you. Everything in due time.
Also, I think it is very remarkable what you have done with the clothing line and giving back to a children's charity. Hats off to you!
Best of luck to you! :) Brzy @ 2008-07-01 04:27:53
Happily Married & Mommy of 3...never googled ANYTHING except recipes and driving directions before...You seem so charismatic and genuine and sweet. You remind me of being young and feeling that butterfly feeling in my belly. I sincerely hope everything works out for you, I know you have a LOT of admirers! I knew it would never work out w/ D! You'll know it when you find it! H @ 2008-07-01 04:32:17
Still good lookin'. You won't have a problem finding love. You have a great sense of humor and you're so witty with you comments. I enjoyed watching. Best of luck. You'll do fine. God Bless... Janet Leilani @ 2008-07-01 05:37:56
Don't give up! I wished I had a man like you! :) Elizabeth @ 2008-07-01 07:12:27
Let's all, Graham supporters and non-supporters, get a t-shirt we can do something good in addition to "just" leaving some comment. We all made the effort of finding this and commenting on a person, from some very edited reality show.
Do show him and his great charity that you really care and that there are "special" people in this world, worthy to meet and invest time with.
Elke @ 2008-07-01 12:25:02
I thought Deanna's comments to you last night were disrespectful and very harsh. You were a class act. It is obvious that she is not over you, and you are on to bigger and better things. happily married in NYC @ 2008-07-01 13:22:42
Graham, I laughed so loud when I read the post above about the married lady that only googled recipes and driving directions until you!!! Here I am a married lady and 51 (a young 51) and I googled you after the first show! It is just amazing what effect you have on the ladies!!!! You are absolutely amazing and everything is going to work out just fine for you. Just be true to yourself. Your were such a class act on the show and at the MTA. Good luck w/ your charity and finding that special someone. Sue @ 2008-07-01 14:45:04
Graham, you are a total class act and clearly you were not into her! Good for you for not doing something to make America happy! Best of luck to you! When the right one comes along, you will find the words.... Take care! Carmen W. @ 2008-07-01 15:10:13
I agree--you are beautiful inside and out and definately a class act. Best wishes with all you do!! Melissa @ 2008-07-01 16:51:08
You're a dick! christne @ 2008-07-01 17:08:18
ABC capitalized certainly off you and we are just lucky they did (you put smiles on our faces). yet I am glad that you used the opportunity now to get that charity going and well known. Girls love to talk and analyze things, I would never admit that to my husband though. with all these flattering comments I hope you will not let them get to your head but stay down to earth, because you are attractive and charismatic. best wishes for your future and everything to come... Denise @ 2008-07-01 17:11:23
Wow....you truely are a special person, not to mention a very sexy one at that!
Love that you are so dedicated to helping others. There is something about you that just captures ones heart. Your good looks probably play a good part, but you definately have that special ora about you. You remind me of a guy that I let slip away because I couldn't open up. I see him today and it really makes me wonder what could have been. Don't be afraid to open up, you have a beautiful soul and sharing that special connection with someone doesn't happen too often. Wish you all the best in life. I will truely miss watching you.
Dawn @ 2008-07-01 17:49:33
People don't really know you, so why would they judge you? All you can do is be the best of who you are. Best wishes Graham! DR @ 2008-07-01 18:41:37
Best bachelor by far, it was great seeing you be yourself and not letting the show or the people in it change who you are. DeAnna just didn't understand that in a typical relationship meeting the family is a huge jump to saying "this is the person I want to spend my life with." She didn't deserve a man like you. Thanks for filling the time...you were GREAT to watch, VERY attractive. Mandy @ 2008-07-01 19:06:33
As much as I'd love to see you as the next Bachelor, why limit yourself to only 25 women when there is a whole world out there! You have class, you are beyond gorgeous and your personality is charming. You always say the right thing at the right time! A. Fenton (Los Gatos, Ca) @ 2008-07-01 19:36:13
Graham,
I was at McFadden's the other night and I heard you were in the area. I watch you on the show sometimes and honestly I am glad it didn't work out because it gives the rest of us a chance. I know we're probably both super busy but I live in Manhattan too and I would love to meet up. Cheers! Anna Murphy @ 2008-07-01 19:56:29
I haven't been watching the show, but after watching The Men Tell All - I had to go back and watch repeats of you....you are amazing....hope you meet the woman of your dreams! LeAnna @ 2008-07-01 20:55:01
Graham I absolutely love you! I think you will be perfect for someone out there and no one should tell you otherwise! I wish you the best of luck in love and in life! Just keeping smiling and working hard! Caroline Carter @ 2008-07-01 20:57:21
Hey this is Brooke and Elizabeth, we are big fans. But we are really young. Sorry about Deanna, your hotttt!
WE LOVE YOU.
Wanted you to win her heart.
(:
xoxo Brooke @ 2008-07-01 22:10:30
WOW, you have come a long way from WFR and being one of "Hess' Boys"!! You look amazing (just as you did back then) and your line of work is honorable! Take Care! CW @ 2008-07-01 22:25:41
Wow!...you really dodged a bullet with that one...as a tv producer myself, i know all to well what an edit can do/ can not do...and if that was the best edit they could give her, well, again, bullet dodged..you are a classy guy and seem very sweet with a quiet confidence that any girl would be lucky to get to know...keep taking it slow, after all, that is how it is NORMALLY done...best of luck to you! kelly welsh @ 2008-07-01 22:50:02
Wow!...you really dodged a bullet with that one...as a tv producer myself, i know all to well what an edit can do/ can not do...and if that was the best edit they could give her, well, again, bullet dodged..you are a classy guy and seem very sweet with a quiet confidence that any girl would be lucky to get to know...keep taking it slow, after all, that is how it is NORMALLY done...best of luck to you! kelly @ 2008-07-01 22:50:54
Like the majority of the comments here, I was hoping you would be the one at the end of it all. I see now that Deanna wasn't the right one for you (and it's important how that is worded.)
Your personality reminds me so much of my husbands' personality. We are a decade into our relationship and we are still opening up to one another.
I really want you to know that the woman who is willing to journey with you as you open up will be the luckiest woman in the world! You will find her, I can see (as so many others can) that you are one in a million. Lesley @ 2008-07-02 00:34:40
Graham~ Hats off to you for being yourself. Rightfully so, DeAnna was all about DeAnna; however it takes two to be in a relationship. She repeatedly spoke about putting herself out there and knowing what all the bachelor's felt, but she never stepped out of her box to individually walk the steps of each bachelor in his own distinctive style. Ever notice how many times DeAnna used the word "I"? "I want this," "I put myself out there," "I know exactly how it feels,." I beleive you were physically attracted to each other, but a relationship would have been disasterous. You're on different continents and spoke different languages. Don't let anyone tell you that you need to change your reserved style. You are uniquely Graham and there's absolutely nothing wrong with that. One who also has a unique styl @ 2008-07-02 01:03:54
Graham, I watch the Bachelorette religiously and Diana should have chosen you! Your a great guy and very sexy and will find your true love. I think it's awesome that you have a line of clothing and some of the profits go to less fortunate children. Mandy ;) Mandy @ 2008-07-02 01:39:11
got what you deserved since you were in it just to be on tv... disbeleiver @ 2008-07-02 03:07:54
GRAHAM BUNN,
WHY DON'T YOU CHANGE THAT "46" LOGO ON THOSE T'SHIRTS TO "MRS.BUNN" ;)
SURE SALES WOULD SKYROCKED... Heidi ;) @ 2008-07-02 03:28:30
Let's be honest, DeAnna wasn't cool. I love the southern act (sorry)...it's classic; sweet and innocent, but really controlling and crazy. Needless to say I'm pumped you didn't end up with her.
Find a hot girl that's not stuck-up. Congrats for not being fake, and congratulations especially for representing the northeast with class. M @ 2008-07-02 05:17:46
i second the Mrs. Bunn shirts MJ @ 2008-07-02 05:22:43
after watching "the men tell all" episode,i realized that deanna made the right decision of not choosing you.you were not all about her,you were all about yourself.all you did was argue with her and you're not even a couple yet.i think what you did acting like you were not paying attention to what she was saying, was rude,not very manly. cristine brooks @ 2008-07-02 05:45:09
yr goin to here this all the time that you are cute sexy that im in love with you but yr never goin to know what to belive or how you really feel when you get serious with someone but when you find that person that sticks with you through yr mood swings ups and downs you will know that she is it. xoxoxoxox!!!! marie @ 2008-07-02 06:05:55
Graham, you are indeed a classy guy. You handled yourself with grace and humour despite the obvious hurt that is written all over your face. All the best. Canadian Fan @ 2008-07-02 14:08:07
HOW COULD DEANNA SAY SHES LETTING GO OF THE ONE GUY SHE WAS FALLING IN lOVE WITH? I DONT UNDERSTAND? GRAHAM YOU WERE MY FAVORITE GUY ON THE SHOW!! I THINK EVERYONE SHOULD NOMINATE YOU AS THE NEXT BACHLOR! Ha CASEN @ 2008-07-02 14:18:14
Graham, you definitely need to try to contact DeAnna. Better late than never. Don't live with this regret! Candycane @ 2008-07-03 01:56:43
Graham, I wish you the best that life has to offer. In my opinion and from what I saw on the show, you were always very classy when you were with Deanna and the other guys. God Bless You! Sophia @ 2008-07-03 02:11:42
Graham, may you find true happiness with someone, you deserve it. Marie @ 2008-07-03 04:10:51
Dear Graham: the best friendship email I ever received was saying "Stay as you are, do not change" and I am happy to share it and pass it along tonight. Once this crazy wave of attention is over, continue doing *with your heart* your projects i.e. fashion, charity and entrepreneurship. I like picture 14 posted on the Web (B&W portrait), I believe your true self and genuire care/tenderness lie behind those eyes. Bonne chance ! Et je vous souhaite paix & amour dans votre coeur (Good luck and wishing you peace & love in your heart). Sylvie G. @ 2008-07-03 05:55:52
You're a great guy and i love the fact that you stayed true to yourself all the way. You are a real gentleman and i believe you were well trained. I watched the MTA and honestly DeAnna was very rude and harsh towards you and Jeremy. It almost seemed like she didn't care about you all. Although she kept saying that she knows what you all going through. I really like your wit/sacasm response on the MTA. At least it shows her that respect is never gained but earned.
PS: i do some abstract paintings and stuff and i wouldn't mind to contribute towards your charity.
I will continue to keep in touch regarding your charity for that great course!
God Bless you and your family
Greetings and much love from Doreen, Canada!
Doreen O. @ 2008-07-04 16:53:10
You'll look back years from now & laugh!
Enjoy life.
Canadian Fan.... @ 2008-07-06 00:54:12
Graham, I'm glad you spoke up at the "MTA", I really respect you for that. And, you were so gracious to the fans, it's obvious that you're just a super great guy! Love will find you, and she'll scoop you up in a heart beat :)
All the best, Tamara (Indianapolis viewer) Tamara (Indianapolis viewer) @ 2008-07-06 01:29:05
You MUST be set up with my best friend!
Danielle @ 2008-07-06 16:32:00
Graham, the love story of you and Deanna is like the movie the Notebook, you have to see if it is love, you have the passion and the chemistry, I know she is still in love with you, please go to her! You belong together, what is love without emotion, fire & passion? You have it! Life won't be boring with each other Tracey @ 2008-07-07 01:45:03
umm.. hi im may be young but all i know is that in the nc, raleigh-durahm-chapal hill area, we love you. hope you come back home.GO WOLFPACK!
:)app is ok too i guess:) ncsoutherngirl @ 2008-07-07 04:10:38
Dear Graham,
here's the convo i had about you with my friend:
her - aren't you supposed to think that your bf is the hottest guy in the world?
me - yeah well he is
me - but graham isn't a man
me - he's a GOD
So pretty much, you should walk around my house with your shirt off and some briefs.
:] Morikot @ 2008-07-07 04:11:33
Graham..I think you were amazing on the show :)
I think writing DeAnna the note was awesome & you
did a great effort of opening up. You're an awesome guy! Holly @ 2008-07-08 04:37:40
Graham,
Just wanted to say hi from back home in eastern NC! You have more fans and supporters than you can even imagine. Prayers and best wishes for much happiness in your life! We enjoyed your time on our tv! Hope to see you somewhere in the future! Todd & Amanda :-) @ 2008-07-08 04:48:27
OK, I just finished watching the final rose. I knew she would pick Jesse because he's like Graham-lite - another professional athlete and fun-loving type but she feels more secure with him because she has him wrapped around her finger a lot more. I love you but I think her and Jesse are just adorable together - they made me wanna cry - she probably made the right decision. She might not have been the girl for you but for the future I think you should realize that it's important to make a woman feel secure and like she has you wrapped around her finger a little (even if you have to pretend a bit). No good woman would get ready to settle down with a man who didn't make her feel like her life would be secure - would you have kids with a man you didn't feel totally safe about? Anyway, much love Graham and good luck with love. I think you're great. Lizzie @ 2008-07-08 05:23:20
I still believe it should have been you...you can not deny the chemistry!
If it doesn't work out w/ Jesse you have to try to see if it can work - I truly believe that! She will always wonder about you Graham & Bravo to Jason for acknowledging it last night on After the Final Rose (she has now twice tried to defend/deflect her feelings for Jesse because everyone knows she has not resolved her feeling for you).
Good luck in all you do & I hope you two meet again & find true happiness w/ each other.
Huge fan in SW Ontario Canada!
p.s. I have never done this before...first time I have ever emailed someone off a reality show. But you are one of a kind :) fan in SW Ontario @ 2008-07-08 14:22:27
Did you make this website so that everyone could boost your ego. bv @ 2008-07-08 21:47:10
You had my vote from day one. That smirk, that security, that "I got it & I know it" attitude. You are HOT, and that standoffish attitude is who you are, and I like who you are. Nad most of all I like that no woman was going to change who you are. What a man. A real man. Dawn @ 2008-07-09 04:40:18
Hello? Why didn't we hear about your charity work on the show? So cool of you. And modeling? How have we never seen you in a Ralph Lauren Ad...seriously. Jen @ 2008-07-09 07:15:14
Hello Handsome! If I weren't married I'd hunt you down! You are so cute! I'm sure you will have no problem at all finding a beautiful women to call your wife. Best of luck to you! You would have been my pick in a heart beat if I'd been the "Bachlorette". (She is nuts!!!) Don't change who you are...you are just fine! Again...all the best to you! Jill @ 2008-07-09 11:54:26
Hey Graham, well I was addicted to the bachelorette cuz you are so stinking cute!!! great clothing line too, i'll definitely be buying some. You should come to Michigan...that's where the beautiful AND nice girls are:) Beautiful in Michigan @ 2008-07-09 14:31:22
Hey Graham, You are a great guy for helping those in need! DeAnna was a fool to not pick you. I was a fan of the show just because you are so darn cute!!! You should try Michigan girls because they are Beautiful AND Sweet!!! Beautiful in Michigan @ 2008-07-09 14:33:27
Graham, I personally like a laid back funny guy. I thought your parents were the best. They did an awesome job with you! When I saw how well the other bachelors responded & interacted with you that said it all for me. A true gentlemen's gentlemen. You are one of the finest most charismatic men to ever jump out of the screen and into the hearts of so many viewers! You put a smile on my face every Monday night. You really are funny. Thanks for showing women that your kind is not extinct:] lynnhutch @ 2008-07-09 22:44:44
graham you are too sweet and sexy. im glad deanna didnt pick you. someone else deserves you as a husband. also, i think it is awesome that you have a line of clothing that supports kids. hope i run into you in raleigh someday. am @ 2008-07-10 00:22:38
yummy Hannah @ 2008-07-10 22:29:47
Graham,
First, I applaud the fact you are involved in helping children. Plus the country where I come from is one of the future projects for Sunflower Children, so thumbs up to you :). Second, I'm not sure why everybody says you had such a great chemistry with DeAnna, because I really didn't see it. Even though some women advise you to chase her down in case her relationship with Jesse doesn't work out, don't bother. You really didn't miss much by not being the one she picked in the end. I'm sorry, but I really didn't see that amazing chemistry. I could be wrong. I personally don't think she was a match for you. I honestly don't watch this show because it's wrong on so many levels it's not even funny, but one of my co-workers made me, so I ended up watching it. People are sort of lead into liking the bachelor/bachelorette since they only get to see that one person and are far away from any other men/women. Not to mention the dates people go on TV are so out of ordinary. Plus all the supposed feelings she had for 4-5 people at the same time, give me a break. She was saying the same thing about the guys she liked. I kept waiting to see that undeniable chemistry between you and her that she kept talking about. The show is over and I still didn't see it. I did see she really liked you and was very into you. Boy was she pissed at you for not opening up (meaning kissing her big ass 24/7). I didn't see you being into her that much. It could be the editing of the show, we can blame it on ABC too. They're deceiving people right and left anyway. They would do just about anything to get some ratings. Since you weren't returning her feelings she basically chose the other guys by default. Poor them! She has 0 personality anyway and I ended up not liking her at all after watching Men Tell All. She's a basket case. I feel sorry for the really nice guys she broke their hearts. I feel each of the guys she chose to stay longer were mislead and did not deserve it, but I guess since they signed up for the show, they pretty much asked for it. Good luck to you!!!! Great job helping out the ones less fortunate. Ariana @ 2008-07-11 03:07:06
Dear Graham, I thought this website was very nice, thanks for sharing it! I watched the bachelorette for the first time ever (recently happened to turn it on one night and got hooked) and was so intrigued by the people involved. All of you who participated came across as genuine nice people and that was so unexpected and nice to see.
I just wanted to say that it seems people have been rather hard on you for not opening up more. I think we open up as people when we feel very comfortable and safe doing so and its not easy to do that in an environment where it feels like you are competing for someone. I think any ordinary person can understand that. I don't think there is anything extraordinary about not having been in a long term relationship before as well - a lot of us are - (there were at least 10 men and women who hadn't been in a long term relationship when I was in my residency (we are in our 30s)) - when you get really busy its sometimes hard to find that right person. If you have a lot of integrity and honesty, its ok to choose not to enter a relationship when it doesn't feel right. I think you have to let someone be themselves, and we all open up at different rates with different people. When you find that right person, opening up becomes easy and you want to because that person honors who you are and you are aware of it.
I think its ok to do what you did. I do think that you and Deanna shared a very special connection - there was a comfort and ease there that one doesn't find often. Thank you so much to the both of you for allowing us to share in that. I do hope you find someone great too!! :) With best wishes to you! arch @ 2008-07-13 07:21:57
I think the foehawk fits you best. :D No more long hair.. Lol.. Da ladies dig you most with the foehawk.. :D :D Joanna @ 2008-07-14 13:52:41
I just want to say it was fun watching you on the show. I feel old at 35 making a comment on a website. I feel like I'm 15 and reading Teen Beat. What made me more compelled to comment was I work as buyer for a company that buys Moen. Seriously I remember seeing that add in some marketing materials at work thinking you were cute. Once I looked you up for the fun of it after you left the show. I saw your Moen add and then found it again at work. Best of luck. If you're ever in San Diego. Email me. Now I'm dreaming. LOL Rita Rita Jo Koller @ 2008-07-16 06:27:01
Heyyyy GRAHAM! You should
be the next bachelor,you're freaking perfect.
YUMMMMMMMY Trystan @ 2008-07-17 04:09:19
What's up Graham?! I just want to play you at basketball. :) I got skillz to make the millz-do you?! Sorry about Deanna, she clearly wasn't your type anyways. You're hot! Cynthia @ 2008-08-06 17:20:09
you are not only drop dead gorgeous, but, you have a heart of gold to be involved in such a wonderful charity. i am purchasing two tshirts one for me and one for my hubby...by the way your new girlfriend, chrishell is a beauty, hope all goes well for the both of you. Jennifer @ 2008-08-07 15:32:07
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